Relive the Craziest ’90 Day Fiance’ Moments: Heated Family Feuds, Relationship Drama and More

L-Bomb

Some viewers had high hopes for Natalie and Mike’s relationship, but things got a little uncomfortable when 90 Day Fiancé producers asked how she felt about him before he was ready to board a plane back to America.

When asked if she loved him, her silence made it clear she wasn’t ready to say the word yet.

Three’s a Crowd

Remember when Jenny found out Sumit’s big secret? The TV personality was utterly shocked to discover that he omitted the fact he was already married to another woman.

“This is a nightmare,” she said at the time. “Why is this happening? I gave up everything, I came to India [to be] with him.”

Tipping Point

Yikes. Molly and Luis had no shortage of disputes during their time together, but one of the feuds that brought their relationship to an end was when he decided to return before leaving for good.

“He’s locked himself in the guest bedroom and he won’t talk to me,” she said as he turned up the stereo to play loud music. “I’ve had about all I can take.” As the drama intensified, he threatened to call the cops.

Taking a Stand

Michael learned very quickly about the consequences of pushing Angela’s buttons when he referred to her as an “elder” on the tell-all special.

“How about this?” she said while taking off her engagement ring. “F— you ’cause I’m your elder and you respect what I said. We’re done.”

Sibling Rivalry

To no surprise, Pedro and Chantel went through some serious turmoil with their loved ones and it reached a boiling point on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

One of their dinner parties ended in a heated brawl between Pedro, his sister, Nicole, and Chantel’s brood. Talk about a family feud!

Giving Him the Boot

Think it’s OK to mess with Anfisa? Think again.

The brunette beauty once stormed off after learning her beau, Jorge, considered ending their relationship.

“When is the last time you talked to Lourdes?” a producer asked Jorge about his sister. “Was it when you went to the divorce lawyers?” That comment clearly rubbed Anfisa the wrong way as she got up immediately and walked away.

Daddy Drama

Elizabeth and Andrei also went through a rough patch when he was out of work. Her father, Chuck, was worried about how they were going to make ends meet with a baby on the way, but Andrei refused to take a position with her dad.

“Your attitude is stupid,” she said on the show, before asking him why he wouldn’t at least inquire about any opportunities. “I don’t want to,” he fired back. “Don’t terrorize me with your pregnancy.”

No Bling

Tom and Darcey had several peaks and pitfalls in their own relationship before he broke things off with the reality star. She thought he would eventually give her an engagement ring, but he ultimately called it quits.

“I feel like he’s throwing it all away,” she said after their awkward dispute. “I don’t know why he doesn’t want to make it work.”

Reign Triumphant

The quote heard around the world! Fans couldn’t believe their eyes when Colt’s cousin John blasted his then-fiancé Larissa, questioning her intentions and why they were rushing to get married.

“Who is against the queen will die!” she yelled while heading up the stairs. “The queen don’t want you.”

App Disaster

On one extremely cringeworthy episode of the show, it was revealed Jay had allegedly cheated on his wife, Ashley, with a woman in the bathroom. After hearing that he was unfaithful, she called the cops.

“I had come into the barbershop and getting ready to start the tattoo, and he kinda was like touching me, kind of caressing me and then one thing kind of just lead to another,” the other woman explained to Ashley about what transpired between them.

Family Dynamic

When it rains, it pours. Eric wanted nothing more than to have a happy home with his love interest, Leida, and daughter, Tasha, but the girls couldn’t see eye to eye — try as they might.

At one point, Leida told him she “wasn’t comfortable” when Tasha came around and she suggested that he make her move out immediately. “You can’t kick me out,” Tasha clapped back. “You’re going to have to deal with that.”

After all, Leida actually did kick Tasha out during one tense scene.

Unforgettable Meeting

Can you recall when Paola met her in-laws for the first time? Well, an interesting conversation took place, as they told a casual joke about how they warned him to not run off with some girl and bring her home.

“Don’t go down there and fall in love … and sure enough he does,” Russ’ mom quipped. Paola kept quiet right after her comment, but her facial expression said it all.

Love Triangle

Ximena joined the cast as Ricky’s second love interest. Little did she know that her beau’s first love interest, Melissa, ghosted him and left him all alone in Medellín, Colombia.

Ximena had traveled all of the way from her hometown in Villanueva to visit him, and viewers were in just as much shock as her when she finally discovered the truth about his other woman.

TMI

Mohamed and Danielle’s relationship was plagued with issues from the start, but perhaps one of the most memorable disputes they had was over his comment about their love life.

“Of course I’m not going to have sex with someone like Danielle,” he said on the tell-all. “She has a problem that she needs to see a doctor before she has sex with someone.”

Awkward Interaction

Nikki and Mark had nay-sayers from the start of their romance due to their big age difference, but viewers thought their fate was sealed when she finally got into his car and he reprimanded her for touching the window.

She got a kick out of it, and did it anyway much to his dismay!

Big Reveal

So, here’s the thing … Paul and Karine appeared to have instant chemistry with their bond, but she was in for a surprise.

During one scene, the TLC alum finally decided to spill the tea about his unexpected criminal record: he was found guilty of felony arson in 2014.

Sex Life

To round off the list, we’ve got to talk about Laura and Aladin! The reality star opened up about their time between the sheets during one scene of the show, and she later stopped by an adult store and picked up a “purple friend.” When he found out about her new toy, Aladin expressed how he felt “disrespected.”

“Maybe the mans there, they are not enough for you,” he said. “But here, you are OK. Don’t worry.”

Boiling Point

As you may also recall, Avery and Angela got into a very heated dispute during part 2 of the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days tell-all special. The drama started when Darcey’s ex Jesse walked into the green room and everyone shook his hand — besides Avery and Tim.

Afterwards, Angela accused those two of “bullying” Jesse and the environment continued to get more hostile. Angela later lunged towards Avery, allegedly while trying to jump Avery’s mom.

Throwing a Shoe

Jesse and Darcey’s relationship went down in flames, but not before an outrageous argument. He claimed that Darcey chucked a Louboutin pump at his head while they were going back and forth, but Darcey insisted she tossed the shoes near his feet, so he could scuff her expensive heels after she scuffed his white sneakers.

Ghosting IRL

On a March episode of the show, Yolanda desperately tried to figure out what is going through the mind of her online boyfriend, Williams, when he randomly stopped replying to her texts and deleted his Instagram account. This change in behavior comes after she attempted to schedule a flight to see him.

Is he a catfish? Time will tell!

He’s Back

In April 2020, Jorge returned to the franchise on the limited series Self-Quarantined and opened up about his looming divorce from Anfisa. After getting out of prison, the star said it “hurt” to find out about her new boyfriend, Leo Assaf, on the internet. Jorge revealed it “broke [his] heart” to see her with someone else, but luckily he’s since moved on romantically and gone IG official with his new flame.

Calling It Quits

90DF alum Caesar Mack also returned to the franchise for the Self-Quarantined series. The former Before the 90 Days star revealed that he finally met his online girlfriend, Maria, in Ukraine, but shockingly confirmed they are “over” after dating for five years. Luckily, now he has a new woman in his life, Aya.

Over Before It Really Started

Ed Brown (a.k.a. Big Ed) and Rosemarie “Rose” Vega made their debut on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days and were already plagued with relationship issues from the start. After he sparked backlash for giving her mouthwash because her “breath is not pretty,” things continued to go downhill. She and Ed split during the May 10 episode after arguing about their different views on having kids. 

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

Season 4 newbie Varya Malina denied Geoffrey Paschel‘s proposal on Before the 90 Days, and soon found herself having to compete with his friend-turned-love interest, Mary Wallace, for the affections of the single dad. The tension resulted in an awkward showdown between the ladies and fans were shocked to discover he later popped the question again to Varya … and she said yes. Are they still together? It’s hard to say because Mary hinted she and Geoffrey may have reconciled since.

Going Silent

While it looked like everything was going swimmingly for David Murphey and his love, Lana, he wowed viewers by confirming they’re “not together” during the virtual tell-all. The duo was engaged and planning to spend the rest of their lives together, but he questioned their future on the June 8 episode because she stopped responding to his messages. Hopefully it works out for the best!

Beginning of the End

Lisa Hamme dropped jaws when she accused her estranged husband, Usman “SojaBoy” Umar, of flirting with a porn star during the Before the 90 Days tell-all. “This woman’s saying ‘I love you.’ She tried to hook up with him before,” the TLC alum alleged.

However, he claimed that wasn’t the case at all, saying the person was just a fan. “Lisa usually attacks anybody, any lady, who puts an emoji of either symbol of love or anything like that love anything,” he fired back.

Sliding in the DMs

Drama popped off again during the Before the 90 Days tell-all when Avery Warner said Darcey’s ex Tom tried to slide into her Instagram DMs after her split from Ash Naeck. Tom cleared the air about the ordeal while chiming in virtually via Zoom.

“Yes, she’s an attractive woman. I can ask people whatever I want. I have no one to answer to,” he said. “It wasn’t me that split up two days before with her boyfriend, but hey, I’m flattered. Thank you for saying yes and thank you for then realizing it was a bad mistake to actually entertain the idea and then say no.”

Agree to Disagree

On the June 14 episode of Happily Ever After? Andrei insisted Elizabeth’s father, Chuck, should fund their second wedding in Moldova and it only caused more animosity between the star and her loved ones.

“My relationship with Elizabeth’s family is nonexistent. I don’t talk to them. I’m mostly seeing them at some family gatherings,” Andrei vented. It also didn’t help that their financial situation hasn’t “really improved” since season 4, the mother of one admitted. 

Lack of Intimacy

Why did Larissa and her new boyfriend, Eric, break up in 2019? That question was answered on the June 14 premiere of Happily Ever After? “We don’t have sex. Nothing,” the Las Vegas resident dished. “It’s like two friends hanging out.” She also compared how her exes made her feel.

“Colt is different from Eric because Colt always wants to make sex,” Larissa said. “I miss that Colt found me attractive to some degree. Eric never complimented me.” It looks like he learned his lesson since they are now back together!

Relocating Stress

Trouble in paradise? Deavan Clegg and her hubby, Jihoon Lee, were at odds about money during the June 15 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. While the couple has overcome several obstacles since welcoming their son, Taeyang, they aren’t out of the woods just yet. “I don’t trust him financially and with promises,” she said.

The Salt Lake City native was especially worried because she planned to uproot her life again to move to South Korea so she could be with her man.

Off to a Bad Start

Brittany and Yazan made their franchise debut on season 2 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. While Brittany’s secret marriage posed a big problem for the couple, they also got off to a bad start when Brittany arrived in Yazan‘s native country of Jordan during the June 22 episode.

Before heading to her hotel room, the aspiring rapper greeted the production crew with a hug and she exposed a bottle of alcohol in her carry-on. Since drinking and public displays of affection between men and women are frowned upon in Yazan’s Muslim culture, he blew up. “That’s just not good but f–k you,” he yelled.

Mom Doesn’t Approve

The following day, Brittany was involved in a heated fight with Yazan’s mom who accused her of stringing her son along because she did not want to marry him right away.

“Brittany, that’s enough, dear. This can’t be like that! I’m not ready for my son to be 26 years old and to keep waiting for you! Yes or no? It’s been a year and we want to see him married and with kids,” his mother yelled.“One time her excuse is the divorce papers, one time her excuse is her dad. Should I wait for her [for] five or 10 years?”

Birthday Bummer

90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After  season 5 star Asuelu Pulaa left his wife, Kalani Faagata, and their two children after a tense fight between the couple during their oldest son’s birthday weekend.

The couple got into it during a car ride with Kalani’s mom to California where they would be celebrating Oliver’s second birthday. They bickered over their roles in their marriage. Asuelu insisted he does his part to help Kalani with their two sons, Kalani disagreed. Asuelu responded by calling his wife a “lying bitch.” Shortly after they arrived at their destination, Asuelu gathered his belongings and left.

Wedding Tension

The tension between Elizabeth Potthast and her husband, Andrei Castravet,  hit a peak while the couple was planning their second wedding ceremony in Moldova.

During an episode on season 5 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, Elizabeth expressed her distaste for a venue they toured in Andrei’s home country, but he kept interrupting her and said, “You’re f–king annoying.” They began to argue and she stormed off. “I had to walk away or seriously, I’m going to punch you in the face,” she told her husband.

More Wedding Drama

90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star Angela Deem threatened to call off her wedding to husband-to-be Michael Ilesanmi after meeting his female friends in his native country of Nigeria during season 5.

“I’m done,” she angrily told Michael as she stormed to their car. “Take your ass to the apartment. I want to be away from you. There’s not gonna be a marriage.”

Mom vs. Girlfriend

Colt Johnson’s girlfriend, Jess Caroline, cussed out his mother, Debbie Johnson, during a season 5 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

During a dinner with Jess’ family, Debbie expressed concern that Jess and Colt’s relationship was moving “too fast.” Jess took offense to her comment and Debbie questioned why Jess was getting so “defensive.” Jess fired back and called her a “son of a bitch” in Portuguese, which Debbie does not understand. “F–k you,” Jess added in her native language.

Texting Scandal

Shortly after getting back together and moving in with her boyfriend, Eric Nichols, Larissa Dos Santos Lima found some questionable old texts in his phone from another woman during a season 5 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

Even though the messages were sent while Larissa and Eric were broken up, the Brazilian beauty still decided to call the other woman, Nathalie, to find out what happened between them. Nathalie told Larissa she only hung out with Eric once, but he “talked horrible things about” Larissa during their time together.

“Talking bad about me to a stranger shows that he has no respect for me,” Larissa said in her confessional.

Ex vs. Ex

Following her split from Tim Malcolm on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, the Colombia native, Jeniffer Tarazona went on to date Darcey Silva’s infamous ex, Jesse Meester.

Tim first spoke about his ex’s new relationship on an October 2021 episode of Bares All. 

“They seem like the perfect match for each other,” he explained. “They’re both self-centered, kind of egotistical, narcissistic. They’ll be a great match until it fizzles out. I would put my bottom dollar that you won’t ever see them together long-term, and he better have a big wallet to keep her happy.”

Jeniffer confronted her ex for his comments on the 90 Day: The Single Life season 2 tell-all filmed in January 2022. “I am an architect and fashion designer, I don’t need money from a man,” the mom of one fired back. “The fact that we train every day, that we wake up at five in the morning, do meditation, go run 10 kilometers every day, love each other and take care of us — that’s not being self-centered, that’s having self-respect and self-love. I wish one day you will stop being negative and throwing shade to other people like you only can do.”

The Amsterdam native defended his girlfriend and added, “You love to talk about others to keep yourself relevant.”

Sneaky Texts

Despite cultural differences and a considerable age gap, Yve and Mohamed made it down the aisle on season 9 of 90 Day Fiancé. In July 2022, Instagram blogger Merry Pants claimed Mohamed had several inappropriate text message conversations with other women following his marriage to the Albuquerque, New Mexico, native. 

Following the cheating text scandal, In Touch exclusively confirmed that Yve is facing domestic violence charges for allegedly attacking him while trying to gain access to his phone. 

A rep for the mom of one has responded to the allegations and claimed they had been “falsified by Mohamed.” “Mohamed and the woman he has been cheating on Yve with have discussed his options from the very beginning,” Dominique Enchinton, of Dominton Talent House, told In Touch. “They specifically discussed a U-Visa and how Mohamed could qualify for this just in case Yve found out about his indiscretions.”

On-screen Split

After appearing on season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, Liz revealed on the January 2023 tell-all that Ed broke up with her post-filming and asked her to move out of his home. While the 90 Day: The Single Life couple was still seeing each other, just not exclusively — it was revealed that Ed was on an Asian dating website, and it was also brought to light that Ed spoke with his ex-girlfriend Rose Vega within the last few months. 

While the pair couldn’t come to an understanding of where their relationship stood, Ed and Liz seemingly called it quits on stage during part 2. 

“I’m tired of all the lies and deflection and projection,” Liz said after learning that Ed had been talking to Rose behind her back.

The mom of one admitted to “losing” respect for Ed and the San Diego native responded by asking for his engagement ring. 

Despite their major blowup, Ed and Liz have seemingly reconciled and are still together as of January 2023.

Angela Vs. Usman

The Hazlehurst, Georgia, native and Usman “SojaBoy” Umar came head to head during the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 7 tell-all in January 2023. 

The feud initially started during an episode of 90 Day Bares All when Angela called the “Zara” rapper a “scammer” for his marriage and divorce from ex Lisa “Baby Girl Lisa” Hamme and claimed that he gave Nigerians a “bad name.” 

The Nigeria native didn’t take kindly to Angela’s comments, telling the mom of two that she knew “nothing” and calling her names.

“If you ask me a question, you have to shut that pig off so that you can hear me,” SojaBoy told 90 Day Bares All host, Shaun Robinson. “She cannot be talking rubbish and you just keep me here.”