’90 Day Fiance’ Sex Confessions Are Too Hot to Handle: See NSFW Secrets

Ashley and Manuel

Ashley and Manuel made their TLC debut on season 10 of 90 Day Fiancé, which premiered in October 2023. The couple, who initially met over 10 years ago, reconnected years after their split shortly after Ashley got out of a long-term relationship. 

Prior to Manuel’s arrival from Ecuador to the States, Ashley worried how he would receive her being a self-proclaimed witch. However, it seemed he accepted her as a “healer” as Ashley revealed the pair have dabbled in “sex magic.”

“Oh it looks like a number of different things, honey,” Ashley told ET during the 90 Day Fiancé 10-year celebration in September 2023, adding that it “works every single time.” “Yeah, a little bit of sigil work, little bit of mantra work. You put it underneath the bed or the pillow, you get after it, girl.”

Statler and Dempsey

Statler and Dempsey were introduced on season 6 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days in June 2023. Statler was excited to visit the United Kingdom to meet Dempsey for the first time; however, the England native admitted she had insecurities about their different levels of experience in the bedroom. 

The girlfriends shared their first kiss and had sex for the first time on night one of the trip. The morning after, cameras captured the couple discussing their first time having sex. After the Texas native told Dempsey that her “p—y tastes like heaven,” she said, “It must be your vegan diet.” Statler continued, “I don’t think I’ve ever been with a vegan. That’s the advertisement vegans need.”

While Dempsey felt intimacy brought them “closer,” it also made her feel insecure. 

“Statler’s more, um, experienced in the bedroom that I am,” she explained in a confessional during the July 23, 2023, episode. “She’s been to like, sex parties and she likes the whippin’ and the chains and that’s something I’ve never done before.”

David and Sheila

After initially connecting online, David traveled to the Philippines during season 6 to meet his long-distance love, Sheila, for the first time. On their first evening together, Sheila admitted to producers she was nervous going to bed as she had never had sex with a deaf person. 

After waking up the next morning, David simply described their evening with one word, “Wow.”

“It was our first night starting to be intimate with each other. It was definitely awkward at first,” David told cameras during the July 9, 2023 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. “I was very horny and my banana got very hard. And I tried to get through her donut, but my banana, it was so hard to fit in.”

Meanwhile, Sheila said she wasn’t “comfortable” with the encounter and called it painful as it had been some time since she was intimate with someone. Instead, she revealed that she and David explored other options to keep each other satisfied including oral sex.

Loren Brovarnik and Alexei Brovarnik

Following their return on season 2 of the spinoff Loren & Alexei: After the 90 Days, the beloved 90 Day Fiancé couple got candid about the conception of baby No. 3. 

“So, there’s a rumor that you can’t get pregnant when you’re breastfeeding, and I believed it,” the New York native explained on the December 2022 season premiere. “But there’s a big public service announcement. It’s not true.” 

While Alexei joked that his wife “convinced him” that it was a fact, he added, “But no. You get pregnant very easily.” 

“I told her we need to use some kind of protection, ‘No, you can’t get pregnant while breastfeeding,’” the Isreal native went on. “It’s ‘nature is protection’ whatever she said.”  

After taking five tests, the Brovarniks learned they would soon become the parents of three under 3.

Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi

Despite Angela and Michael being at odds in the relationship during their return on season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, after Angela’s surprise trip to Nigeria, she admitted the pair had “the best makeup sex.”

“You know, I hate how me and Michael fight, but I do believe we had the best makeup sex there is,” the Hazlehurst, Georgia, native said during an October 2022 episode of the spinoff. “Michael came in my room last night, he told me he was going to take his Instagram down today, which gave me hope that he wasn’t frauding me and wasn’t being an opportunist and he does love me.”

The scene documented the couple as they talked about their new sex life following Angela’s drastic weight loss. 

“We have more positions,” Angela told the cameras. “Now, when he lays on top of me, he can look down and see the c–chie, OK, just tell it like it is. I guess it turns the man on.”

Shaun Porteous and Christine Beboso

Making their debut on 90 Day Fiancé U.K., Christine traveled to the United Kingdom to be with Shaun, a man she met online and shared an eight-year romance with. 

Following more than two and a half years apart, when Shaun asked Christine how she slept on their first night together, she candidly referred to their escapades between the sheets. 

“I had a nice sleep after we had …,” she said before giggling during the August 2022 episode. “I love the night last night …. Did you reach the … the heaven and hell?”

“Oh, yeah. Maybe, more of heaven but not hell,” the Botley, England, native replied. 

“Don’t worry. I’ll give you more tonight and so on night,” she went on. “So you get ready. You know how bad I am.”

Shaun previously worked as a cleaning manager for a supermarket, however, Christine felt his home wasn’t up to her hygienic standards. In a later scene, the Philippines native decided to get creative in her means of keeping their house tidy. 

“There is a note. If you want boom-boom, keep clean. Boom-boom means, you know, the couple before bedtime if you want a romance,” she told producers alongside her partner in a confessional. “If you want boom-boom, you have to clean up and tidy everything … Otherwise, sorry, lonely night.”

Jenny Slatten and Sumit Singh

Following their return on season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, it’s clear the heat is on for these newlyweds. After the first night of their honeymoon in Rishikesh, India, Jenny joked that she was going to “straighten up the bed” that Sumit made “such a mess out of last night.” 

“But that was not only me, it was your fault too and the bed was …,” the India native slicky responded to his wife before making a shaking motion with his hands. 

“Oh yeah, the headboard was hitting the wall,” Jenny said while laughing. “I was like, ‘Oh man, I hope nobody’s in the next room.’”

However, in a later scene, the Palm Springs, California, native found herself surprised when Sumit informed her that he wanted to be more adventurous in their sex life and try a Kama Sutra yoga class.

“What we could do like, go ahead and explore some, like yoga tricks. You must have heard about the word ‘Kama Sutra?’” he told his wife. “It teaches you how to, like, keep adventure, interest in your married life. Or your sexual life.”

Yara Zaya and Jovi Dufen

Yara Zaya and Jovi Dufren returned to season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? to document their lives as new parents to their daughter, Mylah. However, after nursing Mylah for 17 months, Yara no longer feels confident in her body and wanted a breast augmentation.

“I feel if I will have my boobs done, then me and Jovi can find more time having sex and less time fighting,” Yara explained on the August 2022 premiere. 

“In reality, her boobs do not look great,” the Louisiana native confessed later to producers. “Mylah breast-fed for so long, it’s inevitable what’s gonna happen with that. I can see how there’s room for improvement there.” 

Patrick Mendes and Thais Ramone

90 Day Fiancé season 9 stars Patrick Mendes and Thaís Ramone are the latest couple to get candid over their sex life. After being thousands of miles apart, Thaís and Patrick could barely make it home before talking about getting in the sheets. 

“I love this car, babe,” Thaís told Patrick, seemingly hinting at the car’s ability to drive itself. “Because we can kiss a lot,” she continued, grabbing his face in the driver’s seat.  

“Calm down,” Patrick replied as the Brazilian beauty made suggestive movements with her mouth. “You are going to make me stop.”

“Stop to have sex, babe?” she teased. 

“Maybe,” he replied as she laughed mischievously. 

The next scene showed the couple pulled over to “charge” the car.

Stephanie Matto

Stephanie Matto revealed that she not only had ended her celibacy but that she also has a new mystery man in her life during the 90 Day: The Single Life season 2 tell-all in January 2022.

“I lost my celibacy,” Stephanie gushed. “I met someone online. We talked for several months and I flew to Paris, stayed in a beautiful hotel and lost my celibacy in Paris.”

She continued, “We are involved. It’s someone who is a soul mate connection. It’s something I never, ever, ever experienced in my life. It’s like, unexplainable.”

“He is also like, a very sexually adventurous person, which is awesome for me because he knows I’m bisexual,” the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days alum added, revealing NSFW details about their sex life. “He’s very open to like, a threesome with another woman and exploring that. And it was pretty crazy, I mean, we met after talking for several months and within an hour at the hotel, we were in the shower, having sex, we did all the positions — anal, vaginal, oral — like, it was nuts! It was so crazy. Like, multiple orgasms. And I never, never had that before. And he said I was the best that he’s ever had!”

Stephanie gushed, “I think I met somebody who I’m super super sexually compatible with who like, puts my needs first. And people talk about sexual experiences where you feel like you’re one person and you’re like, staring into their eyes and it’s like, you feel your freakin’ soul leaving your body. It’s like that type of s–t. It’s crazy. I’ve never had sex like this before in my entire life and it actually makes me feel like I’ve never had sex in my life until now.”

She revealed that among the things they’ve explored together sexually are “what can be referred to as weird fetishes or kinks,” like being “tied up, handcuffs and remote control sex toys.”

“But it’s just like, it’s a part of exploration! I’m learning what I like,” Stephanie continued. “So, I love it when he spits in my mouth.”

She also revealed that she’s a “complete submissive” when it comes to her new French hunk, but that she can also be “dominant.” When tell-all host Shaun Robinson asked her what was the craziest thing her new man has suggested to her, she said, “I don’t even think I can, like, say it on television.”

Jesse Meester and Jeniffer Tarazona

Jeniffer Tarazona shared tidbits about her sex life with Jesse Meester during costar Stephanie Matto‘s segment on the 90 Day: The Single Life season 2 tell-all in January 2022.

“BDSM, bondage and all that she says, it’s great,” Jeniffer said at the time. “And you have to experience that and find someone like [Stephanie did],  that she can be herself without being judged and just experiment together [the] levels of pleasure. It’s great.”

Jesse chimed in, “We have our own little adventures.”

“Our own ideas,” Jeniffer teased.

“So we resonate a lot with what Stephanie was saying,” Jesse added. “That’s why we were laughing a few times.”

Their costar Debbie Johnson wondered whether Jeniffer or Jesse was the dominant one in their relationship. They both responded, “We switch.”

“Sometimes I’m the dominant and sometimes, he’s the master,” Jeniffer gushed as they both laughed.

Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi

Angela has never been shy about her red-hot romance with husband Michael, previously revealing during part 1 of the season 7 HEA? tell-all that they previously had sex 38 times in two weeks.

Prior to that, she also commented on their intimacy when he showed the apartment he got for them in Nigeria. “I’m not sleeping in that bed,” Angela said in a confessional. “It’s as hard as an erection. You gotta correct some things, and if he wants some sex, he better do it quick.”

Larissa Dos Santos Lima and Eric Nichols

The former TLC star revealed why she and Eric initially called it quits during a season 5 Happily Ever After? scene. “I break up with him. We don’t have sex. Nothing,” the Brazil native told her pals. “It’s like two friends hanging out.”

“Colt [Johnson] is different from Eric because Colt always wants to make sex,” Larissa said about her ex-husband, Colt, when the show aired in June 2020. “I miss that Colt found me attractive to some degree. Eric never complimented me. Never. Colt was always like ‘you’re beautiful’ after I complained. But Eric, he don’t care.” 

Since then, Larissa and Eric have reconciled and put the bedroom drama behind them!

Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa

The mom of two opened up about their romantic times during a May 2021 episode of 90 Day Fiancé after going through a rough patch in their marriage. 

“I feel like I’ve been in the role of your mom for so long,” Kalani said. “I’m, like, trying to teach you things, and it really has taken the romance out of our marriage. Like, I don’t feel like we have any super loving feelings with each other.”

Kalani suggested they try role playing to switch it up. “I think we have neglected our marriage, and sex is, like, an important part of marriage, but if you don’t have the love or anything like that then it’s weird for me,” she continued. “So, we need to do things that make us both happy and do things to make us feel like we love each other again.”

Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester

While appearing on the spinoff 90 Day Bares All, Tania and Syngin spilled the tea about their steamy nights in the bedroom.

“I have a thing under the bed where I tie her up. We have whips, we have a couple of pinching objects,” he said. “It’s a sex thing that you buy. It’s basically so you can tie your partner up at the feet and the hands. It can fit into your travel bag.” 

“Oh gosh,” Tania replied while laughing. “Hopefully, my mom doesn’t see this.” 

“We have a whole little sex box,” she later confessed. “We have nipple clamps in there, a little whip in it, feathers, masks, vibrators, definitely vibrators.”

Robert Springs and Anny Fransisco

The proud parents, who are expecting their second child together, spoke out about their sex life while raising kids during part 1 of the season 7 90 Day Fiancé tell-all.

“How do you guys maneuver that?” host Shaun Robinson asked. “You got the shower, you got the living room, you got anywhere,” Robert dished, before Anny chimed in with, “the couch.” Robert said it’s all about “improvising!”

Elizabeth Potthast and Andrei Castravet

Quarantine and chill? Well, to Elizabeth and Andrei, it was a lot more than that. The lovebirds revealed they got it on several times a week while in lockdown during the coronavirus pandemic.  

“I have to do my job, right?” he quipped on part 2 of the season 5 HEA? tell-all. “Sex is a good reliever,” the mom of one added.

Ed “Big Ed” Brown and Liz

On 90 Day: The Single Life, Ed raved over his sex life with now-ex Liz. “Last night was off the charts. We started snuggling. And we started to kiss. And she is so beautiful and soft and caring. She’s a giver,” Ed told the producers.

“We made love all night,” he added. “We did it about twice. Liz’s body is amazing. It’s like a surreal dream,” the reality star continued. “It will go down in Big Ed history as, yeah, as the event. I’m just hoping that every time it’s gonna be like that.” 

“It was a good night,” Liz said in her own confessional. “I had to teach him how to kiss so I feel like I have to train him to do a lot of things, but we laughed about it.”

Vanessa Guerra and Colt Johnson

Colt’s new bride admitted she was trying to keep up with Colt in the bedroom while chatting about their sex life in May 2021. 

“I don’t understand it,” she told Us Weekly. “I mean, I’m trying to compromise, but I don’t think I’m still up to that five times a day thing. That’s too much for me.”

Ronald Smith

Ronald Smith took to Instagram in September 2022 to share a video that captured him in the back of a car licking his lips. “Me imaging pushing her up against the wall on this song,” text onscreen read as “Unholy” by Sam Smith and Kim Petras played in the background.

He shared the video just weeks after confirming that he’s back together with Tiffany Franco on August 18.

Gabriel Pabon and Isabel Posada

Gabriel and Isabel were introduced to viewers on season 4 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, which debuted in January 2023. 

Gabriel met Isabel through a mutual friend while visiting her native Colombia. After finding chemistry on a night out, the Florida native decided the next morning to tell her that he was transgender. 

Despite Isabel being surprised to learn that Gabe was a trans man, it didn’t matter to her, and the couple started a relationship. Season 4 of the spinoff documented Gabriel as he moved his life from the United States to Colombia. 

While in the South American country, the couple got candid about Gabe’s previous phalloplasty surgery. TLC defined phalloplasty as “plastic surgery performed to construct, repair or enlarge the penis.” 

“Well, we’ve had many interesting conversations, but never a conversation like this because everything works perfectly fine,” Isabel explained to producers during a March 2023 episode. “Sexually, I’m perfectly satisfied but I was really curious.”

During the scene, Isabel assured Gabriel that she was happy with their sex life and there was no pressure from her to make changes to his body. 

“You don’t need it,” the mom of two told him over dinner. “Because everything is good, the size is good, I don’t want it to be bigger … I want to live.” 

Daniele Gates and Yohan Geronimo

Daniele Gates opened up about her sex life with her husband, Yohan Geronimo, while answering fan questions during the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 4 tell-all, which was shared by People.

“Yohan is really strong and I’m really flexible, so we make it work,” she said when asked about the physical intimacy in their relationship in light of their drastic height difference.

The petite reality star added that there are “a lot of acrobatics involved at times.”

“I just think it makes sex a lot more exciting,” she continued about their height difference.

Yohan also said that they don’t let their height difference get in the way of their sex life.

“The size difference hasn’t been a problem for us,” he explained. “When you’re in bed, we’re all the same size.”