The FBI had Anne Hathaway turn over all of the jewelry she got from jailed ex Raffaello Follieri, but the actress sought a totally clean slate — so she donated his other gifts to the Red Cross. “Anne wanted something good to come out of this mess,” says her pal, adding that the gesture “gave her some closure.” Anne even made light of her trauma while hosting Saturday Night Live on October 4. “I broke up with my boyfriend and two weeks later he was sent to prison for fraud. We’ve all been there, right ladies?” Anne, 25, recently told David Letterman, “I got to keep my dog. That’s the most important thing.”

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