When it comes to Eddie Murphy, the father of Melanie Brown’s newborn baby, the singer tells essence.com their relationship was anything but a fling. “We planned to get married at Christmas, but then we had to change it once I got pregnant. This was a completely planned pregnancy… but it happened quicker than we expected.” So why the sudden breakup? “There was no official breakup. I went to London and on my return flight I learned that he made that announcement about wanting a DNA test. Then I saw him on the red carpet with Tracey Edmonds and that's when I knew we were over.” Even before that she admits she had some reservations about him, saying, “There were lifestyle changes that he would have to make if we were going to live together. I have a house where it's about my kids and me. I don't have people knocking on my door at 3 and 4 in the morning.” The recently reunited Spice Girl admits that in the end, “if that’s the kind of person that he truly is, then I’m better off by myself.” One person couldn’t agree more: Victoria Beckham, who, when asked if there was anyone in Hollywood she didn’t like, admitted, “Eddie Murphy." Hmm, wonder why!