When Howard Stern pressed Jerry O’Connell about why he RSVP’d no to the shock jock’s October 4 nuptials to Beth Ostrosky, the actor was coy. “You’ve put me in a very awkward spot and I don’t want to go into it,” he said, then claimed it was because his wife, Rebecca Romijn, can’t travel while pregnant. But an insider says that Rebecca has forbidden her current husband to go because her ex-husband, John Stamos, is attending the wedding. “She really doesn’t want them to be around each other,” says the insider. However, Rebecca’s rep insists, “There is no bad blood between anyone.” Rebecca wed Jerry in July 2007, two years after her divorce from John. Howard and Beth will tie the knot in New York.

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