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90 Day Fiance’s SojaBoy Dating History: From Ex-Wife Lisa Hamme to New Girlfriends Kimberly, Zara

Usman “SojaBoy” Umar introduced his new love interest, San Diego resident Kimberly Menzies, on season 5 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Now that Kimberly has become Usman’s official girlfriend, the pair have since gone on to tell their love story on the spinoff, 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?

“I had to like jump through hoops to make this man, my boyfriend but guess what … I won,” the San Diego native gushed on the premiere of season 7 in August 2022.

After referring to Kim as his “potential,” the “I Love You” artist decided that he and Kim were well suited for each other for several different reasons and decided to officially make her his girlfriend. One of the reasons Sojaboy decided to move forward in a romantic relationship with Kim is because the mother of one said she is “OK” with him having multiple wives — since the rapper eventually wants children and she cannot biologically have more children.

The upcoming season is set to document the couple as Kimberly again travels to Nigeria to ask for Usman’s family’s blessing to get married and her plans to propose to him. 

However, the pair hit a rough patch after Kim became aware of SojaBoy’s previous relationship with Zara, another American woman he was involved with around the same time that he and Kimberly started talking online. To make matters worse, Kim’s first visit to visit her long-distance boyfriend was for a music video shoot in Zanzibar for a track titled “Zara.” SojaBoy previously told Kim that the song was for “all the Zaras in the world,” but she quickly learned that the song was a tribute to his ex.

At the season 5 tell-all, Kimberly also learned of a video conversation that happened between SojaBoy and Zara following her departure from Zanzibar. Kim was so upset she walked off the stage in tears. 

However, when Kim and SojaBoy returned for season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, she said the tell-all made their relationship “stronger,” and she was in the midst of planning a second trip to see her boyfriend.

“He called me and just kept apologizing and saying he was sorry. And he was like, ‘Hey, I miss you. I wanna talk to you in person, I want you to come to Nigeria,’” she revealed of their reunion post-show. “And then I really thought about it, and I was like, ‘I love this man. Like I want to find out what our future holds.’”

Who Is ‘90 Day Fiance’ Star Usman’s Ex-Wife?

Kimberly isn’t the first American woman whom Usman has romanced. The Nigeria native made his TLC debut with his ex-wife, Lisa Robinson (née Hamme), on season 4 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days in February 2020. 

Usman told In Touch exclusively in December 2020 that he served ex-wife Lisa Robinson (née Hamme) with divorce papers. Since then, she found love with her current husband, Tracey Robinson. Lisa is still considered to be married to Usman in Nigeria, but she told In Touch in May 2021 that it’s not legal in the United States.

His previous romance with Lisa was an obstacle Usman and Kimberly had to work through during their initial meeting in season 5.

“I love Usman, but he doesn’t know if he wants to be in a relationship with an American woman again because of his ex-wife,” Kimberly shared about her long-distance relationship with SojaBoy. “This trip is my chance to prove to him that I am not like his ex-wife and then to see if we can build a future together.”

Despite their 18-year age gap and cultural differences, Kim and Usman said they both had strong feelings for each other and seemed to be a compatible match romantically and even though there was pushback from Usman’s friends and manager, who suggested he should go for a young model instead of someone older than him. 

Scroll through the gallery below to see SojaBoy’s dating history.

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