She‘s not mincing words! Angela Deem threatens Michael Ilesanmi as they argue over her being a “submissive” wife in a new leaked clip from the upcoming episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? 

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“You’ll get your ass whooped today,” she boldly tells her husband-to-be in the video shared by the Instagram account @90dayfiancetea on Wednesday, August 19. Angela, 54, seemingly reacts to the conversation he had with his Aunt Lydia about what is expected of a spouse in Nigeria.

“It ain’t none of her f–king business,” Angela yells during the tense scene, telling him he should’ve spoken up instead of saying she would “change” to please his side of the family. 

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“I am who I am, and you can take it or leave it,” she declares. Michael, 31, asks her to “calm down,” but she says her blood is boiling over the ordeal. Angela points out she hasn’t changed from day one, claiming he shouldn’t put that pressure on her. “Get your ass and get your s–t out, and go to your mama’s,” she adds. 

As the fight heats up, Angela tells him to get his hands “out of [her] face” and he requests she does the same. The TV personality says there is too much going on back at home in Georgia to deal with the turmoil, before reiterating her views on being submissive.

“I’m an American. What makes you think ya’ll are God over here as men?” she asks. “The only person who gets bowed down to like that is one man, one Spirit, it’s Jesus!”


During the previous August 16 episode, Angela “called off” their wedding because she was worried that is what he was looking for in a partner. The season 5 star and her beau were already at odds because they had to go to counseling in Nigeria to make sure they were “compatible” before heading down the aisle.

While talking about their meeting, Lydia explained Michael needed to “respect his culture,” but Angela said he needed to “respect” hers, too. 

The couple’s franchise costar “Baby Girl” Lisa Hamme has since shared her commentary on the drama and said, “Run Angela, run, and don’t look back.” 

90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? airs on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.

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