We’re wishing a happy four year anniversary to former Little People, Big World stars Audrey and Jeremy Roloff! The couple tied the knot on Sept. 20, 2014, and years later, they’re clearly still as in love as ever. And to celebrate their anniversary, they decided to share some clips from their wedding video. And though we’ve seen their wedding episode of LPBW, we haven’t their actual wedding video much until now. It’s gorgeous — but we couldn’t help but notice one thing. Audrey looks totally different in it from how she does now. Check out the video above to see what we mean. 

She looks like a totally different (but still incredibly gorgeous) person! Jeremy looks pretty different with his short hair, too. Overall, though, it just reminds us how far they’ve come as a couple. Not only have they been married for four years, they’ve been together for seven, and during that time they’ve grown and changed and even had a daughter named Ember Roloff who just might be one of the cutest babies we’ve ever seen. 

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I love these humans so freakin much. Already missing our sandy bums, frizzy hair, sitting on the porch of Jer’s grandparents cabin, campfires on Lake Michigan, and even our cheap motel with no wi fii, cell service, or AC. There was something so simple, refreshing, and life-giving about our trip to Michigan. It will always hold a special place in my heart. I remember after we took this photo I hugged Jer and said “lock it in.” A phrase we often say to each other to help seal a moment or place in our memory. As i write this I’m having flash backs to all the other “lock it in” moments we’ve shared😭 Each one usually followed by silence and stillness, tuning into all five senses, and thanking God for the grace upon grace He so lavishly gives us. #journeyofjerandauj #ALoveLetterLife

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But that doesn’t mean that things have been 100% easy. They’ve faced some struggles together — and tried all kinds of different things to spice their marriage up when they felt like they needed it. Recently, Auj even admitted that that, back during their honeymoon, they had sex while reading their wedding vows out loud to each other. “I’ll spare you the details, but it was the most intimate thing we have ever done in our marriage, and probably the most intimate thing I have ever done in my life,” she wrote on her blog.  

They didn’t do it just the once, either — they do it every year. “This is just an unconventional crazy idea that Jer and I decided to share with you all,” Auj wrote. “It’s something that we have decided to do every year on our anniversary as a way of putting gas on the fire of our oneness.” That’s definitely one way to keep the spark alive!