Side-by-Side Photos of Fernanda Flores and Clay Harbor
Courtesy Fernanda Flores/Instagram; Courtesy Clay Harbor/Instagram

Talk about a reality TV crossover! 90 Day Fiancé star Fernanda Flores and The Bachelorette’s Clay Harbor are dating. The TLC personality broke the news on the Monday, May 25, episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Self-Quarantined, revealing part of her shelter-in-place plan includes a Zoom date with the Bachelor in Paradise alum, who has “everything she likes” in a guy.

“Clay is just a guy that I like a lot. He was a football player. He’s been in a few reality TV shows before. Clay’s so hot. So hot. I met Clay a few months ago over social media. We went on a first date, but it wasn’t the right timing for me. I wasn’t ready to be dating,” Fernanda, 21, told the camera. The two hung out in February — and even shared a selfie together on Instagram — but things never got serious. Now that she’s had a little more time to move forward from her divorce, which she finalized in March 2020, she and Clay, 32, are ready to give dating another try.

90 Day Fiance Star Fernanda Flores and The Bachelorette Star Clay Harbor Hung Out in February 2020
Courtesy Fernanda Flores/Instagram

“We’re stuck home with quarantine, [but] we figure we could have a virtual date. … It was just so normal. It felt like a real date. It felt special. It felt a good time,” she said. But the couple, who both live in Chicago, are looking forward to the day they can meet up in person. “I can’t wait for this quarantine to be over and be able to have a real date with him, where I can be physically touching his muscles and have physical contact,” the Mexican beauty continued. “I can’t wait.”

For now, she’s enjoying exploring the romance in whatever ways she can. After tying the knot with ex Jonathan Rivera, who was “literally [her] second boyfriend,” she’s learning more about herself and the kind of relationship she’s looking for. The 90 Day and Bachelor Nation stars are figuring out what their future could look like together — and whether or not it might include a couple of little kids running around.

“I do want kids,” Fernanda says after Clay asks on the show. “If you asked me this question when I was fresh out of my separation, I would say, ‘No, I will never date again! I don’t believe in men!’ But you know, I’m ready to give love a chance again.” The model is looking to the future, too — though her ideas are a little more immediate. “I just can’t wait to take you to the club, the Latin club, and dance with you. But I have to teach you how to dance before,” she teased.

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