Last month, 90 Day Fiancé star Ashley Martson shared with fans that she’s actually been going through some serious health struggles. She revealed that she has lupus, a chronic autoimmune disorder that can leave her feeling weak and looking seriously ill. In a follow up Instagram Q&A with fans, she answered a few more questions about her illness — and revealed that her fiancé, Jay Smith, has actually been there for her every step of the way since he came into her life. Check out what she had to say about Jay (and about her kids!) in the gallery.