She may look perfect, but Anfisa Nava‘s life still comes with plenty of strife. But we’re not just talking about what it’s like to have her husband, Jorge Nava, away while he’s serving his prison sentence. Aside from there, there are still the small day-to-day things that can seem totally overwhelming sometimes. But the former 90 Day Fiancé star has decided she’s not going to let the imperfections in her life bother her. In a new, candid post, she’s opening up to her fans about coming to terms with the tough things in life. Check out the gallery below to see how Anfisa came to realize that “it’s ok to not be ok.”