Did Ash Naeck and Avery Warner split? The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days couple got into a very heated fight during the Sunday, May 3 episode, and it didn’t seem like they would be able to come back from their nasty argument.
The couple continued their fight from the previous episode after Ash, 32, confronted Ash, 38, about his seemingly “sexist” views on gender roles after his dating seminar. Ash was upset because he admitted the seminar was not his “brightest moment,” but he felt Avery was attacking and patronizing him.
“Do I take care of you? Do I make you feel safe? Do I actually make you feel like a woman? Do I make you happy?” Ash asked his girlfriend and she responded, “Yes, but you have to recognize that I’m thinking about moving you all the way to America. But every time I start to try and ask you hard questions, this is how you respond.”
Ash said he understood, but Avery continued to point out his defensiveness. “Yeah, this whole time we’ve been super happy because all I’ve been doing is avoiding those hard questions. I’m asking you questions about who you are, how you act, what you think. I’m trying to get to know you and then you come at me the way that your responding,” she said.
Ash apologized, but their fight continued to the next day at their rental. Ash stepped out to their hallway and started crying. He felt “stripped down as a man” and claimed Avery was like a “pitbull” because she “wouldn’t let go” of their fight.
When he walked back inside, it was his turn to confront Avery. “You’re a very hard person, you know that? I feel that you’re very heartless. You hurt people very deeply,” he told her. “Why do you hurt me? I feel you’re here, you like hurting me. I screwed up yesterday, my ego was hurt everything was hurt. Your reaction to that, it concerns me. You say it concerns you? It concerns me more.”
The couple continued to argue back and forth about their feelings toward the situation. “To be honest with you, I’m not gonna deal with this anymore. I’m done mentally,” Avery told him.
Ash was so upset he decided to leave. “She doesn’t care,” he told producers as he packed his things. “I’m done. Why would I be with someone, spend my life with someone who doesn’t care?” Fans will have to wait to see if they’ll be able to work through their issues.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs on TLC Sundays at 8 p.m. ET.