The 2017 Grammys are in full swing, but there’s one person suspiciously absent from the award show — Selena Gomez!

The 24-year-old was nowhere to be found at the award show, despite her new boyfriend The Weeknd performing at the show, where he was also nominated. This comes shortly after In Touch revealed the two were on the rocks because Sel was “suffocating” the singer, 26.

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“The Weeknd is starting to feel suffocated by Selena,” an insider tells In Touch, exclusively. “He’s set to kick off his Starboy: Legend of the Fall 2017 world tour [on Feb. 17 in Sweden], and Selena is begging to join him. He likes her, but he feels like she’s moving too quickly.”

According to the insider, Sel’s insecurities are likely to blame — and she’s concerned that fans will be “throwing themselves” at her new boyfriend.

The Weeknd — whose real name is Abel Tesfaye — already hinted at a breakup, tweeting, “Playing with me is a dangerous game.”

Scroll through the gallery to relive some of Selena’s past relationships!