Although most Sister Wives fans have various opinions about the show, there's one fact that most viewers are on the same page about — that husband Kody Brown is kind of the worst. "Freaking Kody is such a narcissistic jerk! He doesn't listen," a fan tweeted. "I love #SisterWives but sometimes I hate watching it because Kody is a douche," another tweeted.

But if you're new to the show, you're probably wondering what's the big deal about Kody, and what makes him so awful to fans. Well, for one, many viewers think he's full of himself, selfish, and doesn't care about the needs of his four wives. He's openly humilated his wives by insulting their looks, has ignored their pleas for emotional attention, and has even asked for them to just straight-up "obey him." After 12 seasons of this, fans are starting to wonder why his four wives, Meri, Janelle, Christine, and Robyn, even stay with him.

And the wives aren't ignorant to Kody's borish behavior either. In an interview with HuffPost Live, Christine even mentioned that Kody is often putting his foot in his mouth. "It's just an [example] of what happens," Christine said. "So we'll say a comment, and he doesn't even know how offensive it is because he's just a man, and he doesn't know how easily to get offended. And he'll say a comment, and me and Robyn and Janelle are like, 'What? You can't say that to her, that's really offensive!' He's like, 'What did I say? I didn't even know what I said.' Robyn's like, 'Well you can't say it like this because it hurts feelings.' And he's, 'I don't know what you're talking about!'"

But although the wives laugh and find this "cute" behavior funny, the rest of viewers are left wondering if maybe the women should be filing divorce papers. Below, a few reasons why Kody isn't winning "husband of the year" anytime soon.