It’s not easing chasing after two toddlers, especially when they’re off in different directions. Luckily, Jill Duggar has plenty of practice managing a whole hoard of little kids. But when Christmas rolled around, her sister-in law still knew just what to get her. Deena Dillard, the wife of Derick Dillard‘s brother, Dan Dillard, showed up with the perfect camping style mug for the Duggar mom. And the saying on the front of it is actually relatable AF.

“Thanks @deena.dillard for the mug lol,” Jill wrote on her Instagram, adding the hashtags #momlife, #busytoddlers, and #christmasgifts. She also showed off a picture of herself taking a sip from the too cute cup. “Drinking coffee,” the mug read, “to keep the kids alive.” Yep, that’s how we feel sometimes, too!

Fans were loving the mug, too — so much so that everyone was asking Deena where she got it! “This is the best mug ever!” one fan wrote, with another adding, “That mug is everything.” A third commented, “I know some moms who would like that mug!” There were so many questions about where to score mugs of their own that Deena even weighed in about where she found it. “The mug is from a local store in Harrison, AR,” the new mom told Jill’s followers.

Of course, the Duggars can’t post anything online without getting a little bit of hate, too — especially when it’s one of the young moms. “If only it were that easy,” another commenter wrote, responding to the funny saying on the cup. “This mug is incredibly insensitive to those who have lost children.” Someone else wasn’t having it, though — or any of the rest of the hate about Jill’s nose ring or eyeliner. “Can the girl just post a picture of herself drinking an innocent cup of coffee without the lashing out?” they wrote. “Good grief.”

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