Haters take a seat — or should we say, Hayters?! Teen Mom 2 star Kailyn Lowry has received tons of backlash over the years, but one of her friends has been there through it all — Rebecca Hayter! The reality star mama became BFFs with Rebecca through an ex, and they’ve been inseparable ever since — well, despite the fact that they live in different states! Get to know all about Becky (as she’s known on the show) below:

She lives in New Jersey

Meanwhile, Kail lives in Delaware. In June, Rebecca — who calls herself “Becky with the good hair” — took over Kailyn’s website for a Q&A with fans and admitted she doesn’t get to see the mom-of-three as much as she would like to. Although we saw her on tonight’s episode of Teen Mom as she watched Kail graduate from college, she doesn’t film often. She admitted, “I do not film often, but then again, I also do not see Kail frequently, which needs to change. Time to move to NJ Kailyn.” We agree! Or perhaps NYC? #JustSaying

She was once rumored to be Kail’s girlfriend

Although she denies ever hooking up with Kail, she does claim that the 25-year-old “wishes” they would. “Honestly, any girl I hang out with people always assume I’m dating or hooking up with them, even my parents,” she said. “I am used to it.” She put the rumors to bed once and for all on DEc. 28, 2017, when she told People that “against popular opinion,” they are not romantically involved. “Kail is happily falling back in love with herself,” she teased. However, she insists she knows Kail “better than anyone.”

In June 2016, Kail took to Twitter and wrote about the drama saying, “Do I have to be gay or straight? Can’t I just love people?” Unfortunately for Kail, it appears that Rebecca is taken by gf Leah Makarevich. “[I’m] happily in love with my girlfriend.” Sorry, girl!

She’s smart AF

She’s got two degrees! According to her LinkedIn, Rebecca earned her Bachelor of Science in Sports Management at East Stroudsburg University of Pennsylvania and went on to receive her Master’s in Management and Leadership with a concentration in Sports Management. Go, girl!

Her job is legit

She’s a Project Manager, Creative Specialist at TIP Medical Communications, Inc., “a technology partner focused on providing fresh solutions to pharma clients,” according to the company’s website. Not gonna lie, that sounds important AF.

She’s fluent in Spanish

Says her LinkedIn!

She and Kail have a super chill relationship

“When she is in a good mood, we just have so much fun together. We laugh and joke around and make fun of each other (mostly me making fun of her). I hit on her and she welcomes it with open arms.” Love it. Next time you two hang out, give us a call?

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