Looks like they’re not living so happily ever after!

Nick Viall has already given out the ~final rose~ and it appears that the winner of the 21st season of The Bachelorspoiler alert — find out who she is here — is already having regrets after watching Nick, 36, “get a little too intimate” with the women vying for his heart.

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“The winner started to cry,” an insider tells In Touch, exclusively. “Not only was she hurt by what she was seeing, but she was so embarrassed by his behavior.”

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The insider adds that the Nick she’s gotten to know in private is very different than the Nick she sees on her TV week after week.

“Nick is already very sweet and loving toward the winner in private, but she’s starting to see how much of a playboy he is, thanks to the show,” the insider explains. “She’s starting to think that maybe she made a huge mistake. She’s having second thoughts about spending the rest of her life with him.”

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Of course, seeing his true colors on TV didn’t come as a total shock to the winner, as she warned by other women on the show that he had a tendency to get around — but at the time, she considered it to be their jealousy speaking. Now, she’s reconsidering everything.

“The winner had heard from the other girls in the house that Nick was trying to sleep with all of them, but she always brushed it off as them just being dramatic,” the insider tells In Touch. “But after having watched these first few episodes, she’s starting to think the girls weren’t exaggerating. Watching the show each week gets harder and harder for the winner because his behavior gets shadier and shadier.”

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And things have gotten so awful, they may be beyond the point of recovery for Nick and the winner.

“It’s so bad right now, the winner doesn’t even like to admit that Nick is her future husband,” the insider adds.

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