The shade of it all! 90 Day Fiancé fans are just now realizing how toxic Jesse Meester and Darcey Silva‘s relationship is on Season 2 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Even though it seems like it’s safe to say that Darcey and Jesse are not still together because they’ve both been absent from each other’s social media for quite some time, Jesse is finally speaking out about his split in a recent podcast interview — and he even hinted at the reason why he and Darcey broke up.

“In my relationship, Darcey doesn’t per se have bad intentions, but getting to know her more, you get to see that a lot of it is fake. I can say now to you that I have a business, I’m a very successful man, that I did this and I did this — but that doesn’t mean that it’s true,” Jesse said in a recent episode of Reality Life with Kate Casey. “So whatever perception I give you, whatever is on the show or whatever narrative you get from social media is just what I want you to see. And for me, when it comes to a relationship I don’t care what you do in [the] entertainment industry as far as faking everything, but I expect you, if I fall in love with you, to be real with me. I don’t want to fall in love with a facade, with a fake reality and that’s kind of what I was experiencing.”

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Jesse went on to explain that as he went on to get to know Darcey more, he started to realize that she had been allegedly lying about her life as a fashion designer and her career in the entertainment industry. He also hinted that the image that’s currently being portrayed of him on the show as a controlling boyfriend is also not true.

“And by the way, I don’t wanna throw any shades or something,” Jesse continued. “I’m gonna keep it respectful — may peace be upon her — but it’s just very sad when you witness something like that.”