Julie Bowen and her husband of 13 years, Scott Phillips, are having relationship problems — an insider reveals to In Touch.

Scott didn’t accompany Julie to the 2016 Emmys, and the couple — who are parents to Oliver, 10, and twins John and Gustav, 8 — haven’t been photographed in public together since February. The couple has been “living separate lives for a while now,” the insider shares.

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And when asked what her favorite romantic thing to do over the holidays is, she said, “The holidays are about kids.” Asked where she’d like to go on a second honeymoon, Julie left out Scott again, saying she’ll go wherever “I can bring the kids.”

Julie and Scott have “tried to keep it together for their three sons,” adds the source but the marriage is “hanging by a thread.”

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