Jason hoppy bethenny frankel wedding ring

80 Days and Counting:
Jason Hoppy Still
Wearing His Wedding
Ring After Bethenny
Frankel Split


His marriage to Bethenny Frankel has been over for nearly three months, but Jason Hoppy, 41, just can’t seem to quit wearing his wedding ring.

It's been over 80 days with his ring on and “he’s still being very difficult,” a source says of the pharmaceutical rep, who has yet to agree on a divorce settlement with Bethenny, 42.

“Jason’s only wearing his ring so he’ll look like the victim,” adds a longtime friend of Bethenny’s. “But he’s not the victim, and he’s not crying over their divorce — he’s talking to lawyers.”

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Jason “is really trying to look like the good guy here,” says a friend of the former couple.

And that’s going to be hard to do after Bethenny’s been racking up lots of sympathy from her fans.

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"I feel like a bit of a disappointment to all of you,” she told the audience at The Ellen DeGeneres show on Jan. 9, just after her split went public. “And I feel like a failure,”

She continued, crying: "I really put it out there. I wanted the fairytale. I thought I had it. And [my 2-year-old daughter] Bryn is my fairy tale. This is excruciating, I have to say.”

Do you think Jason is keeping his wedding ring on for sympathy or from his inability to move on?