Parenting isn’t easy. It’s especially hard when you’re in your early 20s and have to deal with establishing financial stability and planning your child’s future—in addition to your own.

No one knows this better than the ladies of Teen Mom and Teen Mom 2!

Even though they have a sweet side gig (being a reality star sounds like a pretty great part-time job), these ladies deal with serious hardships—and viewers have been there for the highest highs and the lowest lows.

To show what a ride parenthood truly can be, we decided to create a definitive ranking of the ladies of the Teen Mom franchise—while highlighting their best (and worst) parenting moments.