On the July 17 episode of Married at First Sight, we saw Amber Bowles worry about husband Matthew Gwynne and his “transient lifestyle,” convinced it meant he could leave her at any time. In the July 31 episode, those fears come to fruition when the new groom opts to not come home to his wife one night. But Amber isn’t the one that Matt has to answer to — or at least she’s not the only one. In In Touch‘s exclusive clip from season 9, episode 8, it’s love expert Dr. Pepper Schwartz that steps up to the plate to give the husband a talking to, and she doesn’t hold back. Check out the video above to see In Touch‘s exclusive clip from the July 31 episode.

Married at First Sight airs on Lifetime Wednesdays at 8:30 p.m. ET.