Love on the Spectrum’s Dani Shares Update on Sex Life With BF Henry: ‘We Both Want the Same Thing’

Love on the Spectrum‘s Dani Bowman gave fans an update on her sex life with her boyfriend, Henry, after her romance with Adán Correa ended because he refused to be intimate.

Dani, 30 shared a series of loved-up photos and videos in an Instagram post on May 3. She wrote in the caption how she would “pick” Henry, 32, “over and over again.”

One inquisitive fan wrote in the comments, “Everyone wants to know, are they doing it?!?!?!?”

Dani responded, “We are getting to know each other RN. We both want the same thing, but we both know that getting to know each other first is important!”

She added, “We are just enjoying each other’s company, having lots of fun exploring each other while waiting.”

A second follower cheered that Dani was finally “getting” physical intimacy, telling her, “You go girl!” to which she also replied, “Not yet but we both want the same thing. Someday soon.”

“I really hope you take things slowly Dani. Some things are worth the wait,” a third fan wrote, and the reality star replied, “We are. I learn my lesson.”

Dani and Henry began dating after Love on the Spectrum season 3 ended. He proudly made their romance public on his Instagram page on April 2, the date the show dropped on Netflix.

“Finally get to share with the world,” the police officer wrote with a red heart emoji while tagging Dani along with a series of photos showing their adorable dates. Henry also let fans in on when their relationship began, adding, “Fun fact: The first photograph is from our first date back in November.” It showed the couple posing in front of a Christmas tree at an outdoor mall.

Dani made the big revelation about Henry — whose last name she still hasn’t revealed — in an Instagram post on April 7. She shared an article from Netflix’s Tudum showing that she was in a relationship and informing fans that Adán, 27, broke up with her.

“Finally, I can talk about it! New Netflix article by TUDUM out today! Yes, he’s 32, Neurotypical and a police officer. We met last October, and we are in an official relationship! More to follow!” the animation company owner told fans.

The Tudum piece revealed that the couple met when Dani and her company, DaniMation, received a donation for autism awareness from Southern California’s Huntington Park Police Department, and Henry was the one who presented the check.

While she was still hurting from her breakup with Adán, the duo formed a connection. Despite Dani looking for a boyfriend who also worked in a creative field, she fell for the police detective.

“For the first time in my life, I’m with someone who truly sees me,” Dani told the outlet, “Not just as an animator, not just as an advocate, not just as someone on the spectrum, but as Dani. And that? That’s the best feeling in the world.”

The Netflix star also shared what happened in her split from Adán after the pair dated for a year and a half.

Love on the Spectrum viewers witnessed trouble in the romance during season 3, when the public safety officer wanted to pull back from having any physical intimacy.

“I didn’t break up with Adán,” Dani told Tudum. “He broke up with me. Or at least, that’s how it felt. Because for a year and a half, he let me believe we were on the same page, that we were building something real together. And then, just like that, he pulled the rug out from under me.”

Dani said that during their final date, she felt blindsided when Adán wanted “to take a step backward — no kissing, no intimacy, nothing.” She told the outlet that she had always been clear about her intentions when it came to a physical relationship and thought that they both wanted the same thing.

“It wasn’t just a breakup, I felt it was a betrayal,” she said. “He never gave me a chance to prepare for it, never hinted that his feelings had changed. Instead, he let me walk blindly into heartbreak, like a deer in the headlights, while he had already made up his mind.”

Adán told Tudum that his strong faith was one of the reasons he decided to pull the plug on Dani’s wish for an intimate relationship.

“For me, believing in God has been my strength, and my religious beliefs are what help me make sense of the pain that I’ve experienced in my life. My values have been shaped by my life and life experience,” he explained.

Adán added that his experience with dating Dani brought him new insight about relationships.

“I have learned that love is magical and beautiful,” he said. “I am confident that I will meet other girls that I can date and build a strong and honest relationship with. I do want to find love again. It happened once, it will happen again.”