The shade of it all! Teen Mom 2 fans know that Leah Messer does not insert herself into drama very often and the mom-of-three usually just keeps her comments and thoughts to herself — which is why fans were shook when she took to Twitter to share a message about people who “settle.” Many thought that Leah was subtweeting her ex-husband Jeremy Calvert and throwing shade at him after he went public with his new girlfriend Desi Kibler.

“I just don’t understand why someone chooses to settle and be unhappy,” the 26-year-old wrote on Twitter, adding the thinking face emoji. Even though she didn’t mention Jeremy’s name, fans flooded her mentions with their own opinions about her ex-husband’s new relationship.

“Maybe ‘someone’ doesn’t want to be lonely, that’s why they settle for unhappiness,” one fan tweeted, and another responded, “And yesterday I saw a picture of [Jeremy] with a girlfriend…”

Even though mostly everyone thought that Leah’s message was directed at her ex-husband, she made it clear that it was mean’t for him — but she couldn’t help but throw just a tiny bit of shade at him in her response. “He can’t chose himself… he’s gotta be in a relationship but that’s neither here nor there LOL,” Leah wrote. “I’m not talking about him. I’m talking about anyone choosing to settle or not living life to their fullest potential.”

Leah tried to play it off like she didn’t really care that Jeremy has another girlfriend, but fans think she has a right to feel some type of way about it — especially because she recently admitted to hooking up with Jeremy after their 2015 divorce. “I guess at first maybe I considered [getting back together with Jeremy],” Leah said during an interview on her Teen Mom 2 co-star Kailyn Lowry’s podcast. “Like, ‘If we are getting along this great, why not try it again for Addie’s sake?’ But at the end of the day, we weren’t happy. We didn’t do well together but we do great as friends.” Watch the video below to see Leah and Jeremy flirting on social media!

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