No more second chances. 90 Day Fiancé alum Ashley Smith (née Martson) and Jay Smith have had quite a tumultuous relationship. Fans thought their marriage was over for good after Ashley, 33, filed for divorce from Jay, 22, back in April. But Ashley previously revealed to In Touch that she and Jay had been “talking” again. Ashley and Jay got back together over the summer and tried to give their marriage another shot. Now, Ashley exclusively confirms she split from Jay yet again and claims the final straw came after Jay allegedly got another woman pregnant. Scroll through the gallery below for exclusive details.
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“I’m a big believer in following your heart and it is true that I took Jay back once again. I know people will judge me and, while I can accept that, it was ultimately my decision,” Ashley exclusively told In Touch.
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“However, what my friend is saying turned out to be true and Jay confirmed it himself on the phone that he did indeed have another girl who is claiming he got her pregnant,” she added.
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“He said he doesn’t believe her but they are going to get a test done and regardless it’s clear he cheated on me,” Ashley continued.
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“I am distraught yet again and am picking up the pieces and doing my best to move on,” she said.
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“I know that I only have myself to blame for the situation I’m in again. It’s no one’s fault but my own. I can safely say I am, once and for all, done with Jay,” Ashley added.
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The Pennsylvania native’s friend, Carina Passalacqua, confirmed Ashley and Jay’s reconciliation. She exclusively told In Touch that she thinks Jay manipulated Ashley into dropping divorce and the PFA (protection from abuse) order she had placed against him back in July.
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“Okay … seriously enough is enough. Having Ashley call me to let me know jay is begging to come back once again after another ‘mistake’ is starting to get really old. I don’t know how many times it’s going to take for her to realize how negative he is for her life and how much better off she is without him,” Carina exclusively told In Touch.
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“I support her no matter what and have always stood beside her in her choices, but I’m done when it comes to Jay,” she added.
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“I really used to like him, and the first few times he came back around I was excited he was back and excited to see them work things out. In the last few months though, he has put her in such a spiral of emotions and brought nothing but bad to her life,” Carina explained.
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“We had an awesome, fun summer, filled with laughs and great memories. I finally started seeing the happy Ashley again. Now, she’s become quiet, worried and just not herself,” Ashley’s pal said.
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“I’d be the exact same way if I had to deal with getting calls saying ‘I have another girlfriend’ or ‘I’m sorry but this one girl’s pregnant.’ These situations are bizarre and I’m ready just to see her bounce back from this and unfortunately, the only way this is going to happen is if he leaves her alone,” Carina mused.
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As any protective friend would, Carina had a very strong message for Jay.
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“Go be young, go be immature and go live your life the way you want to but don’t drag her along. Apologies aren’t real apologies from him and mistakes aren’t mistakes when they keep happening. Her friends got her from here Jay, you don’t need to ‘worry’ about her anymore we can handle it,” Carina said.
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As for Jay, he denies cheating on Ashley again and he denies that he got another woman pregnant. “That’s a lie,” Jay said in an exclusive statement to In Touch.
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