Sandra Bullock may have wanted to tell the world — and herself — that she’s freed herself of Jesse James by divorcing him. But as In Touch has learned, that isn’t entirely true. According to a source close to Jesse, he has not only relocated himself and daughter Sunny, 6, to Sandra’s hometown of Austin, Texas — he has manipulated his entire family, including his mom, Carol, and his ex-wife Karla, the mother of his two older children, Chandler, 15, and Jesse Jr., 12, to come with him. “Jesse is selling the home Karla lives in, which is in his name,” the source explains. Over the weekend of July 4, Jesse and his brood were seen out and about in Austin. Though Jesse and his mother were estranged in the past, he convinced her to move to the Texas city with him “so that he can prove to the court that the children will have a stable and grounding home,” the source reveals. It’s a very difficult situation for Sandra, who’s raising 6-month-old Louis on her own. As much as she may want to distance herself from her cheating ex, she is deeply attached to his children, whom she has said she thinks of as her own. Not wanting to abandon them, Sandra seems intent on playing an active role in their lives — no matter how much it costs her, monetarily and emotionally.