She's got the face - and body - that launched a brawl between her ex-husbands, but Pamela Anderson isn't taking sides in the Kid Rock/Tommy Lee rumble that erupted at the MTV Video Music Awards. "I'm staying out of it," the bombshell said yesterday on the Ellen DeGeneres Show. She also revealed that she didn't see the fight herself. "I actually left," said Pam. "As soon as I left, meow! They all went after each other." But Pamela has more important men in her life to consider. The actress says she's newly in love, after paying down a $250,000 poker debt with a poker champ, who said that "if I made out with him, that I could clear the thing... Then I fell in love and now we are engaged." Well, not so fast. "I'm not really engaged," she clarified. "I don't know what I am. I paid off a poker debt with sexual favors and I fell in love. It's so romantic. It's romance." Sure it is, Pam.