Larry Birkhead isn't feeling sorry for Virgie Arthur one bit. Anna Nicole Smith's mother and Dannielynn's grandmother wasn't invited to her granddaughter's first birthday but "Virgie knows exactly why she can't see her granddaughter," Larry told E! Online. "It's because she's waging a custody battle against me in the Bahamas. It'd be a little awkward with her coming over to my house for dinner - 'Virgie, pass the peas. By the way, see you in court next week.'" Larry then goes on to say, "She doesn't want to be a grandmother, she wants to be a money manager. She can continue to play poor-pitiful-me games to anyone who'll listen, I'm not buying it."