It seems like 43-year-old Darcey Silva and her hunky Dutch boyfriend Jesse Meester, 25, didn't break up after all. The volatile stars of the 90 Day Fiancé spin-off series Before the 90 Days got into a huge Instagram fight after Darcey allegedly drunkenly attacked one of Jesse's followers on Oct. 29, but he assured fans that they were still together on Oct. 31. And they've been posting photos together ever since!
Most recently, Darcey shared a sweet snap with her beau in Amsterdam. "Our love is golden... Every time I’m with you I fall in love with you deeper all over again," she wrote on Jan. 8. "Our soul feels the love wherever we are...together in love, life and spirit...❤️✨ @ Amsterdam, Netherlands photo credits @pd_fotografie 📸❤️#powercouple #photoshoot #love #beauty #beforethe90days #tlc." So sweet!
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As previously reported, Jesse confirmed that his and Darcey's relationship was still intact in a passionate Instagram post. "I love my girl with all my heart," he wrote. "We grow, we fight, we make mistakes, but we always love and overcome!" The message was accompanied by a video of the pair's sweetest moments, in which Darcey said, "Darcey and Jesse love each other forever, for eternity." Jesse disabled comments on the post after fans accused him of faking their previous fight to build hype for the show.
The drama started on Oct. 29 when a fan commented on one of Jesse's videos promoting the show, writing "I love you guys. Looking forward to today’s episode #curious 😉," according to Starcasm. In a now-deleted comment, Darcey allegedly responded saying, "Maybe you guys got something special. If u want him then just ask him." After a little more back-and-forth, Jesse chimed in accusing Darcey of being an alcoholic. "Sorry for that!" he wrote. "She knows she has a problem with alcohol and shouldn't do this. She knows she needs help and shouldn't randomly attack or accuse people when she drinks."
"This has been going on for over a year now and again she turned herself to the public attacking fans who just stated they were excited and happy to see us," he continued. "This just gets worse and I’ve done nothing but be receptive and helpful (which wasn’t aired) and kept a lot to myself because it is something she needs to overcome. But now she is the one putting herself out there by attacking people here. This was just embarrassing. We can only hope and pray this is THE wake-up call." Finally, the comments were deleted, and both Jesse and Darcey removed all photos of them together on their social media and unfollowed each other.
Fans have wondered about the future of the couple ever since Before the 90 Days began airing. On Sept. 24, social media posts pointed to Jesse and Darcey (who lives in Connecticut) being together and very much in love. Jesse flew to New York City and was photographed with Darcey and her daughters. The photo of the happy family was posted by Darcey on her Snapchat on Sept. 24 and showed all four enjoying a visit to the Sugar Factory. After their initial meet-up as documented on the show (which timelines suggest happened in February), the duo took a romantic trip to Greece together. The trip was book-ended with non-stop social media affection and PDA.
However, Darcey has always lashed out at fans, and that's caused some problems. In one Facebook post — now deleted — a fan asked Jesse if he works out while on vacation. He responded, "Yes, I swim in the sea." His comment prompted Darcey to reply and mention a workout of a different variety. "Ohhhh Yes U do baby….thank heaven you and I get a different kinda workout too outside the sea too! A sexy workout!!! If you know what I mean! Lol!!! [sic]" the mom of two wrote.
By August, the romantic future was already looking grim for Darsse — dubbed the pair's couple name by Starcasm. In two separate Facebook posts — again, since deleted — both parties seem to hint at some turmoil in their relationship. It's likely that neither can overtly discuss the drama, as per their contracts.
"So over it!!!!!" Darcey wrote on FB. "Now he can f--k all the other b--tches!! Come on ladies!!! He's a single man and available!!! He's hot!!! He got lots to choose from I'm sure anyway!" When one user suggested in the comments below to leave her drama off social media, Darcey responded in several separate comments, writing, "My page sorry. Sorry hun. I'm over the drama and ridicule. It's my life too. But I appreciate your concern. I think I got it handled. They will know about it anyway at some point."
Jesse went off on his own FB post, writing, "There is no reason to get upset over things you can't control. Value progressive relationships. Don't settle for less. Stagnancy is poison." However, he changed his tune a few weeks later, posing a question to his Facebook friends: "To some people: Why so nasty about Darcey? What has she done to you? Please, you are entitled to your valuable opinion, but at least have some decency in expressing it."
Despite their ups-and-downs, Jesse and Darcey always seem to come back to each other. After that fight, Jesse took to Instagram to insist that they never broke up — and give his side of the story about her infamous "f--k other b--ches" comment when a fan asked if they were broken up because she claimed that he was cheating. "She never said such a thing. Three months ago, she wrote, 'I'm over it. He can f--k all the other b--ches now,' as seen on the gossip articles," he wrote in a comment. "Out of frustration and vulnerability, she wrote that. Is that ok? No. Is that nice/smart? Absolutely not. And she knows my opinion very well about this. But we never broke up. So watch the show to see how it will go between us. There's more to come." Sigh, we can barely keep up!