As one half of one of Hollywood's A-list couples, Ashton Kutcher definitely knows his place — as an accessory to his wife, Demi Moore. "When it comes to getting dressed, men are a little bit more important than handbags but less important than shoes," he writes in the September issue of Harper's Bazaar. "At any rate, we are merely accessories." He also believes that men should play second fiddle to their women. "Your man should not upstage you. He is there to highlight you." And finally, if you're trying to figure out what to wear as a couple, he offers this tip. "Your best bet is to match the man gear to that great new Balenciaga bag that you're planning to carry," he declares. "If your bag works with your outfit, so will he." Looks like Demi has got Ashton pretty well-trained!