Just when it looked like The Real Housewives of Orange County stars Gretchen Rossi and Tamra Barney had come to a truce, the fight has gotten ugly again. Tamra believes that Gretchen’s boyfriend, Slade Smiley, bashed her parenting skills on a recent episode. “I take raising my children very personally. Maybe it’s something he should try doing,” Tamra, 42, tells In Touch. “I think he is a washed-up 40-year-old who wants to be on TV so bad, he’ll do whatever it takes.” But Gretchen, 31, was quick to strike back. “She should focus on her own children, who obviously need the attention,” Gretchen tells In Touch, going on to allude to a past incident involving Tamra’s son. “One of them went to jail recently and has not been successful at much except hitting on drunk girls that Mommy connives to get naked wasted at her home.”

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